What do you do when someone close has done wrong?
He’s no longer who he said he is.. You’re a whole new person. I don’t I have the time or energy to get to know you all over again. Can you imagine finding out a year in to your friendship that someone you tell all your secrets to isn’t real, wasn’t honest.
It’s like having a Gay best friend. He picks out your clothes, hangs out in the ladies room, watch’s you change. Then one day you look up, and wait… he’s in the parking lot… but wait. Who’s with him… no, that cant be.. Is that a girl sucking on his tongue?
Apparently he’s been doing it for a while. But he wanted to be your gay best friend.
So he never bothered to tell you the truth. Cause if you knew. Things would change. But now he’s dating your friend so he “had to come clean”. But how do you except that person. They lied to you your whole friendship. This is not the friend I used to talk to. Share my thoughts with. Tell you what I care about and what irritates me.
I don’t need an apology. I can move on. So should you.
How’s that for an organized, well composed thought??
5 comments:
That's a wonderfull post. Strong blogging there Dindel. One reads something like that and wonders: "Who could she be talking about? It couldn't be me, could it? I mean, she's always told me I meant nothing to her, that she couldn't give a crap one way or the other about me and what I thought or said. But maybe she DID care and maybe I hurt her."
Wow, heavy, heavy stuff.
Glad to see you decided to keep blogging
Iim confused that gay friend story is your story or an example
All these anonymous posts....
I don't know who 5:13 am anonymous poster is but I'll take credit for the first 2 (signed: Thurston?)
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